With or without a finger condom, you'll want to douse your fingers in the lube all the way to the base, and then start slowly. That should never happen IRL, both because consent is important and also because surprise fingering can make someone's body shut down. It can help if whoever is being fingered takes some deep, slow breaths. B-Vibe has several other suggestions , but the point is to go slowly and gently at first. Handjobs might be the most underrated sex act. If you try to finger someone's anus totally dry, you can end up tearing their butthole.
Isabelle. Age: 28.
He looks around sheepishly, leans across the table and whispers, "Dude, she stuck a finger in my butt.
Barbara. Age: 28.
If You're Not Ready For Anal Sex, Try Anal Fingering
If you try to finger someone's anus totally dry, you can end up tearing their butthole. And if you're considering anal sex , anal fingering could be a logical first step. He was my first dating app date, six weeks after I left a five-year relationship. First, talk to your partner before you take any action.